I was saying the Radha relationship was about music ... but Krishnas relationship with Rukmini was not about music was a higher relationship ... is the one-ness absolute that needs no qualification or form ... sometimes your Rukmini dies and you find you can do something with your Radha relationship ... 

and then theres the Draupadi model where she actually had several husbands and they were all agreed on it, that had evolved by them exploring their feelings rather than being in denial about them ... and is on a higher level than most people achieve even in their commitments ... 

having said that I would say the Draupadi model is the lower of the three types ... 

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