enders is pigeoning my radio which rather blows her vulnerability card if she has one. trouble with psychopaths is you can’t always just ‘love them out of it’ which i found with fritzle in fact the  more i loved him the more arrogant and dictatorial he became … psychopathy requires a different sort of technique I find involves being very cool and detached with them gently humouring them and minimising the contact and in such a way to ‘not set  them off ‘ I found. 

psychopaths have no capacity for empathy so while they can be quite intense about their own needs will not be able to feel someone else’s. And hey I developed this technique myself from long experience with them! 

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anyway about my care thing … can people please not waste time making a dogs dinner of it …

my suggestion was that he swap cases with someone else . I should be allowed to make a valid point like that … without it being seized upon in a corrupt way by people with other agendas …

21.06.12. 11.09am